today is my hubby n i 1 year n 2 mths anniversary.. hehe he said he will celebrate with me tonight.. im waiting wif excitement..!! haha..
actually i felt weird.. coz dunno why he still treat me that gud.. but i didnt ask.. cause i know that.. as long as we happy.. i won't take out the sensitive issue n talk about it again.. cause we know we love each other.. earlier, we come out an agreement.. we will give each other more freedom n we juz meet once a week.. because he has to concentrate on his job n i shud too on my study.. we wan a brighter future.. n he is quite a big guy thinking.. he very mind that i suffer wif him.. hmm.. anyway, i willing to be the women behind him.. he is a wonderful person.. other than some bad tempered =p haha trust me ^^
actually we broke up b4.. for a short period.. the reason is known.. n all of that is coz of my gud.. im so sad n touched when broke up.. coz even when until the last minute.. he will still think for my gud.. it is too long to speak it out here.. anyway.. many times we struggle.. we talk.. we argue for this break up.. there have no solution.. but wat make us understand is we still love each other alot.. therefore, until now.. we didnt figure out wat's our relationship now.. we didnt ask for the solution.. we juz happy wif one another n everyone know us are sweet couple.. n we satisfied.. behind this relationship, there have too much external prob cause us feel that our relationship is no-longer.. but our love, hold us together.. n we still walk how far that we can..
most importantly, we love each other, n we happy for each other..
wat makes me realized in this incident is.. a couple may not argue who is right or wrong.. some sensitive issue may have to put it aside although at first we dun think it muz ignore.. but wat i learn is.. if i take up the sensitive issue.. i will get a smack on my heart.. many thing btw a couple do not have solution. however, if we love each other, we muz think for each other, muz tolerate.. i can take up the prob dun mean that he can accept the prob..
n for those who break up.. when u wondering shud u save the relationship or not.. u juz need to ask urself.. do u really love her? AND do she really love u? juz a two question.. because when the love is there.. wat kind of problem also can ignore.. dun say about solve..
a very good example, is me n my hubby.. ^^
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